This post shows you the 10 Last-Chance Date Ideas Before the Baby Comes.
Do you feel like it’s the end of an era? It was just the two of you (or three if you have a dog or a cat), and now things are never going to be the same!
Due to the tremendously negative effects of social media, for years, I dreaded the decision to become a parent.
All I saw on the other side of the fence were tired people, moms in sweatpants with dirty hair, dads with big bellies, takeout food for every meal, and an end to what was once a really nice relationship.
Why so negative, though? I honestly don’t know.
I know transitioning into parenthood is not all rainbows and butterflies, but it’s not all negative, either.
So, I really wanted to write something positive. Something that the two of you can do before the baby comes that will help you make amazing memories.
When I wrote about the last-chance date ideas before the baby comes, the goal was not to frighten you into thinking you’ll never experience this again.
It was more to encourage you to celebrate what you have and look forward to what you’ll become!
Here’s the list of the best last-chance date ideas before the baby comes!
1 Ultimate Relaxation Date
Book a couple’s massage or spa day (or set one up at home) to unwind, de-stress, and soak in the peace before the baby arrives.
If you two like to do these things separately, then that’s totally fine. For my husband, it’s the car wash, and for me, it’s a hair appointment.
But this time, I suggest you do things together. A couple’s massage can be a really nice experience to share.
Most of the last-chance date ideas before the baby comes focus on something extravagant or indulgent, but for you two, it can be very simple.
Why not book a spa day and take some time to relax? If the weather is nice, this could be something outdoors, like a bike ride in nature, followed by ice cream.
Whatever is relaxing enough for both of you, do it together, now!
2 The “Sleep-In One Last Time” Date
Plan a lazy morning in bed. Sleep in, cuddle, have breakfast in bed, and just enjoy the last time you can wake up whenever you want.
This is your official permission slip to stay in pajamas all morning (or all day), eat in bed, and do absolutely nothing productive. No alarms, no schedules, just pure, uninterrupted laziness.
Start with coffee in bed, maybe even a round of your favorite cartoon or comfort movie in the background.
Order lunch instead of cooking, so you don’t have to leave your cozy little nest.
Play a game together, like a board game, a card game, or even something silly on your phone.
And after all that? Take an afternoon nap. Because you can. Because you should. Because pretty soon, sleeping in is going to look a lot different.
This isn’t just about rest. It’s about soaking in the simplicity of being together, just the two of you, before life gets a little louder.
3 Fancy, Uninterrupted Dinner Date
Go to a fine dining restaurant (or your favorite place) and enjoy a slow, uninterrupted meal, the kind you won’t have for a while once the baby arrives.
This is the exact opposite of a lazy day at home.
Dress up, go all out, and make it feel special.
I know that a fancy dinner date is one of the most cliché last-chance date ideas before the baby comes, but there’s a reason for that.
There’s something about pretending you’re just a young couple again, smitten, flirting, and trying to impress each other.
The dim lighting, the way you both look when you actually put effort into getting dressed, and the fact that you’re eating a meal without rushing or distractions.
Take your time, order dessert, make eye contact across the table, and enjoy the moment.
Because soon, your meals will include rocking a baby in one arm or cutting up tiny food pieces.
But tonight? It’s just the two of you, the way it used to be.
4 Movie Theater or Drive-In Date
Catch a movie on the big screen one last time.
This isn’t about mourning the life you once had. It’s about enjoying the moment and making memories before life changes.
Going to the movies is such a simple pleasure, but there’s something fun about picking whatever you want to watch without overthinking.
Go for an action-packed blockbuster, something scary, or a flirty rom-com, whatever feels like a good time.
And, of course, movie dates mean indulging in buttery popcorn and soda, guilt-free.
Bonus points if the theater is in a mall, so you can do a little shopping or grab a treat before or after the movie.
My husband and I always play arcade games before a movie, and honestly, that’s something our kid will probably love, too, one day!
It’s fun now, and it’ll be fun in the future, just in a different way.
So go, have fun, and enjoy a classic date night while it’s still just the two of you.
5 Spontaneous Road Trip or Day Trip
Take a spontaneous day trip to a nearby city, beach, or scenic spot. Do something fun, easy, and low-stress to make one more memory before the baby comes.
One of the best last-chance date ideas before the baby comes is to just go somewhere, go on a spontaneous trip.
No over-planning, no second-guessing, just pack a bag and head somewhere new.
Last summer, my husband and I decided, in one day, to take a vacation. It was crazy. Crazy good.
We called my parents, asked if they could babysit our dog, packed our bags, and headed to Greece for a seven-day sea vacation.
We lived on a budget, ate fresh seafood, and spent our days swimming, snorkeling, and being silly. Hands down, one of the best trips of our lives.
Now, maybe you’re not about to cross international borders, but you can absolutely do something spontaneous!
Here are some ideas that are perfect for a last-minute road trip:
- Drive to a nearby beach or lake for a relaxing, toes-in-the-sand kind of day.
- Explore a charming small town with cute cafés, antique shops, and local restaurants.
- Visit a national park for scenic views, light hiking, and a peaceful escape.
- Book a last-minute stay at a cozy bed & breakfast or a quirky Airbnb in a nearby city.
- Go on a food tour—pick a city and try their best-rated pizza, coffee, or dessert spots.
The point is to just go, have fun, and make a memory that belongs to just the two of you before life gets a whole lot busier.
6 Double Date with Friends
Enjoy a night out with friends. Whether it’s dinner, a game night, or a casual hangout, before your social life gets a little more baby-focused.
One of the best things you can do before the baby arrives is to spend time with your favorite people.
Life is about to change, and while you’ll still see your friends, things might look a little different for a while. So why not plan one last carefree night out together?
This is a really good time to remember and include your child-free friends!
It doesn’t have to be fancy or complicated.
Go out for dinner, try a new cocktail bar (mocktails count!), or invite your friends over for a game night. Laugh, have fun, and soak in the easy, spontaneous energy of being with the people who know you best.
This isn’t about saying goodbye to your social life. Far from it.
But let’s be real, in the first few months of parenthood, your idea of a night out will probably involve ordering takeout and collapsing on the couch.
So take this chance to enjoy the uninterrupted conversation, the laughter, and the joy of just being together, before life gets a little louder.
7 A Night Under the Stars
Go stargazing, sit by a bonfire, or take a nighttime walk—enjoy the quiet and have one last deep conversation before parenthood.
There’s something about being outside at night that makes conversations flow differently. The world feels calmer, time slows down, and you can just be together without distractions.
Find a quiet spot, whether it’s a cozy backyard bonfire, a scenic overlook, or a peaceful park.
Bring a blanket, sip on something warm, and talk about everything and nothing, your hopes, your excitement, what you’re most looking forward to.
Pretty soon, your nights will be filled with baby snuggles and late-night feedings. But for now, it’s just the two of you under the stars, savoring the stillness before life changes forever.
8 “Do Nothing” Date
Sometimes, the best date is no plans at all. Order takeout, wear comfy clothes, binge-watch a show, and just be together.
Not every last-chance date before the baby comes has to be an event.
Sometimes, the best thing you can do is absolutely nothing. No schedules, no expectations—just a quiet night at home, doing whatever feels good in the moment.
Stay in your comfiest clothes, order takeout from your favorite spot, and binge-watch a show without worrying about bedtime.
Maybe you talk for hours; maybe you sit in comfortable silence. Either way, you’re soaking in the simplicity of just being together.
Pretty soon, your home will be filled with baby giggles (and cries), and nights like this will be harder to come by.
But for now, enjoy the peace, the stillness, and the ease of just existing as a couple, before everything changes in the best way possible.
9 Bucket List Date
Is there something you’ve been wanting to do together but keep putting off? Now is the time!
Whether it’s a short city break, visiting a cool museum, or trying a new activity, this is your last chance (for a while!) to check it off your list.
Think of something you’ve talked about but never made time for. Maybe it’s a fun class, an adrenaline rush, or a road trip to a spot you’ve always wanted to see. Whatever it is, make it happen.
Don’t do anything dangerous if you’re pregnant! Please, no bungee jumping or roller coasters. Something chill but safe, please.
You’ll look back at this moment as one of the last big “just us” adventures before stepping into the next chapter. And honestly, that makes it even more special.
10 One Last Romantic Night
Plan a special, intimate night in or out—a reminder that before you were parents, you were a couple first.
I love romantic nights. They’re about feeling good about yourself and feeling good about your partner.
You can go out to a fancy dinner or set the mood at home with candlelight, soft music, and no distractions.
A playlist makes everything more special, maybe your wedding songs or just music that makes you feel connected.
Cook an amazing meal together, order something indulgent, or make a rich chocolate dessert side by side.
No phones, no social media, just the two of you, fully present in the moment.
This isn’t about a “last” romantic night but about celebrating your love in its current chapter.
Because while life is about to change, your love story is still unfolding, and this is just the beginning of a whole new kind of romance.
These last chance date ideas before the baby comes are all part of the Pre-Baby Talk. That’s why, when the baby comes, you’ll be ready and prepared for…
…all the love in the world.
Which of these date ideas do you think is the most important? Let me know in the comments!
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